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IT ISN’T JUST TIME THAT MAKES A DIFFERENCE! The mainstream grief narrative would have you believe that after a death, the only thing that will make every holiday season easier than the one before, is time. In my experience this hasn’t been the case. The first year was complete shock. Year two, it all sunk in and the pain of people thinking life was normal was almost too much to bear. Three four were hard too, and certainly did get feel like a clear, linear progression in ease of navigating the h

25 dic. 2023

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It’s one of the first things I thought when he died and it’s continued to be THE HARDEST THING about this: ⁣ ⁣ He’s dead and he’s never coming back. ⁣ ⁣ Period. Full stop. ⁣ ⁣ There is no ending to this. ⁣ ⁣ At this time last year, two of my closest friends who I love so, so much, were going through their own individual hells. It was so hard. ⁣ ⁣ Fast forward one year, and I’ve been reflecting with both of them on how impossible that time was, one year ago. And how different things are today. Ho

3 dic. 2023

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After the doctor came in to tell us you would die, I remember you were quiet for a long time. I watched you, lying in that hospital bed and gazing out the window, my heart beating in my chest. What were you thinking? What were you feeling? You were in so much pain. And you couldn’t get out of bed or even sit up without my help. Your “view” out of that hospital window was a concrete slab. Grey and drab. Tears filled your eyes and I will never forget what you said when you finally spoke. Your word

31 dic. 2023

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